so my husband and i have been together for almost 5 years and have been married for 2 years, we have been going through a tough time and its been getting intense. i use to be a stay at home mom of two babies and he use to work at a good job which is hard to come by now a days and he ended up quiting to go to school full time and now im working, we had to move in with my parents to get back on our feet he said it will be good and he doesn't mind taking care of the girls when i work. now he's mad because i work in a warehouse doing lumping/ frieght handling for 8 hours starting at 3am so when i get home im exhuasted i spend time with my family for 3 or 4 hours before i have to go to bed or he leaves for school its tough yes and i know we both hate this but now he's always angry and i came up with once a month date night but he says no and invites friends over how do i talk to him bout going out? and get him to tell me what he wants and why he is angry all the time?
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Wow.. all I can say :
How can he expect you not to work while he is in school full time? Does he think money grows on trees? Sheesh. I don't know what you can do to "calm" him but that would be the last thing I'd be doing if I were you.. I'd tell him to get his fucking head out of the clouds up in fantasy land and then HE will get the PRIVILEGE of getting some of YOUR time. Your guilt is misplaced, put it right back on him where it belongs.2