So after trying and trying nothing works, the feelings are just gone. You guys have 3 kids and you feel like it's getting worse. Do you stay for the kids or go?
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Sometimes staying for the kids could be worse. It will inevitably crash and burn and the kids most likely know that there is trouble in paradaise. Get out while you're still on speaking terms with your spouse. It will make your life much easier in the long run. I know couples that have opted to take that route and it seems to have been much easier on their kids. They can still go to the same weddings, birthday parties, etc. stress free for everyone involved. They have kids together so they are going always going to have to have that connection in their lives. Might as well keep it friendly instead of letting the resentment build up until it explodes.1