I have been married for 20 years together for 30. My husband frequents strip clubs. I believe he is cheating
With a stripped. He has been working extra jobs to help put
Our oldest daughter through college. We stopped having sex about 6 months ago because he claims he is so tired
From working these extra jobs. I have noticed he is coming home later and later. He says he has to have a few drinks before coming home. We have three children together. Since he has been working these extra jobs we don't do anything together anymore. He has Friday through Sunday off. During the week he will leave the house at around 11 am and not return home until around 9-9:30 pm. I feel a real disconnect with him he says I am paranoid and that nothing is going on but why do I feel like he is cheating with this stripper should I be concerned?
Most Helpful Girl
Watching strippers is entertainment. He is not cheating.
Unless he is touching or fornicating with the strippers, he is simply watching a show.
If you went to watch the chip and dales with your girlfriends, would you consider it cheating? Often there is a double-standard that girls going to a strip join to watch men is acceptable girls night fun, but men going is often shamed.
It appears as though he may be looking for an escape from life and work... watching strippers allows him to just let everything else go away.
I don't think you should be concerned unless you find something physically going on.1