Recently saw my ex she was married to a guy who was so shy and average in HS and doubt if he ever had a girlfriend. He just have a good job but he still average guy. I wonder how she fond him attractive and marry him. He had no history in fights and parties during school years all he was good at was books. Why a girl would marry an average guy?
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ALHA FUCKS/BETA BUCKS.
When a woman is young, and beautiful she has fun and fucks the guys who are alpha (popular, attractive, rich and/or). However, these guys won't commit to her or would only offer her short term relationships/SEX.
As women progressive from her 20's to their 30's they start thinking more about stability, and money over looks/excitement. They start becoming more serious about committed relationships. They also begin to lower their standards for physical attraction.
It is at this time that women start looking at guys who in her early 20's she would have scoffed at, ignore or never considered as romantic relationship. These guys are chose because they provide stability, and have money and will most likely commit to her for long term relationships. Combine this with the fact that women's biological clock are ticking and telling them to have a baby now @ this time before they increase their risk of having an autistic child, and them noticing that they can't compete with younger women for alpha males attention, and the average guy essential boils down to a retirement plan for most women from the dating market at 30+.
The guy she was fucking around with in her 20's who are either off the market because they got married/LTR, only want her for sex. This is why women say "there are no good men left" @ 30+.
It is @ around 30's that guys begin noticing a strange behavior in women who would otherwise have not been nice/overlooked, and or looked at them as asexual entities suddenly ARE sexual and flirty with them.4
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