If you don't believe in it, how long would you wait before having sex with your girlfriend?
Do you believe in sex after marriage and why?
What Guys Said 12
Of course I believe in sex after marriage! But yeah, I believe in sex before marriage as well. lol.
How long would I wait? Until I felt close to her, comfortable enough with her to share that with her, and as long as I was ready that that. But also, she'd have to be ready for ti as well b/c... well, I'm not a rapist. lol. But also I wouldn't wanna pressure her into anything.2
I certainly do
1. less drama
2. If you break up it not going to be as painful as somebody you had sex with.
3. 100% std free
4. I like rebelling against society
5.22% higher relationship stability 20% higher relationship satisfaction 15% better sex (“higher sexual quality of the relationship”) 12% better communication.2
No. I believe in sex well before marriage, to ensure you are sexually compatible as well as compatible in every other way. Marriage is meant to be an affirmation of an already strong relationship, not an incremental step.1
I don't believe in sex after marriage. I think that in order to have a successful marriage, you must be 100% compatible. If you wait til after marriage, you risk sexual incompatibility. That's something you need to make certain of before jumping into marriage.
I would wait about six months before having sex if i had to. The thing is, i won't have sex with someone until i love them. So it all depends on when i decide that i love them. Usually, if i haven't decided i love them after being together for 6 months, then its time to break up. That's why i said 6 months.0
Of course I don't believe in it, technically I don't believe in "marriage" beyond that it's a symbolic thing that you can get if you really want if you want to spend a bunch of cash on celebrations and rings.0
I'm still a virgin and I'd be perfectly happy to wait until marriage, but I'm not strict about it. My personal belief is no-sex-before-love.0
From what I hear, no, there isn't sex after marriage. It's a myth 😄1
I believe in sex after marriage. People have a lot of sex after marriage.1
What Girls Said 9
I believe in both sex before and after marriage. My husband and I had sex before marriage. He flat out told me he was going to marry me and asked me for my ring size. I waited a few months to see if he was going to change his mind and he never did. We have now been happily married for almost a year. I waited till I met the right guy to give my virginity to though. He was very happy he was my one and only. My advice is to wait because your first time is very special and you will regret it if you have multiple partners. My husband had sex partners before me and he kind of regrets it. He said he wishes he waited like I did. For me the guys treated me like crap. They felt like I was some prize to be won. They couldn't even remember my favorite candy.1
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No. I believe in sex when you're ready. I highly doubt that God or whoever is going to judge you just because you gave yourself to a person that you loved AND were committed to, but you simply didn't have a ring.
I believe that He looks at the hearts of people and judges them based off of that---not the fact that you spread your legs the night before your wedding.1
I don't believe in sex after marriage. I personally don't see the point. I could never be with a guy who didn't want to have sex before marriage.0
I believe in it. I think it makes things a lot more special knowing that the two of you waited for each other.1
I believe in sex before marriage just not kids before marriage1
Well I'm not into women so I can't answer that question lol. I myself am not waiting for marriage I've never felt the need to. Although everyone says I've waited this long so I might aswell. I can't imagine waiting this long and not being sexually attracted to my husband when I see him naked. If I happen to meet a guy that wanted to wait (very unlikely) then I'd be okay with that (not talking marriage here).
So far this guy has waited about 9 months and we haven't had sex, so there is hope.0
yes i do because i believe that the virginity is a great gift a woman can give her one and only however i have no problem with others having a different opinion people are different and i respect that so if my future daughter wants to have sex before marriage i dont mind0
Sex AFTER marriage? How sinful.0
I don't. I wouldn't be with a guy that wanted to wait till marriage.0
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