Am black he is white. Since we started dating he had to stop talking to his best friend. The bestie has a problem with black women. The funny part is he is Chinese... I thought he would know how racism feels too. My love stood up for me. Now its getting worse. We are getting married BUT his mother hates my ass. HATES myyy ass. She wants him to marry a girl from his country :l. On top of that his family stares on me. Giving me the evil stares. My friends are racist too. They want me to marry a black man. So I told my best friend. White man black man pink man purple man I dont care they all have the same dick. Why don't you stop being a slut and leave me alone. So yeah am friendless now.
Sometimes I want to cry. I always wanted a big wedding. With both families and friends. Now... its just me and him. He is okay with this but I feel awful. I think its best to call off the wedding. Any advice? Thanks for reading this cauz its long.
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear this. sounds rough.
I am open minded myself and I married a guy from a different culture. I'm not saying that it can't work, of course it can. It will just be much harder. We had lots of misunderstandings and things each of us took for granted which caused some fighting and we ended up getting divorced.
My family supported the marriage, but his didn't and it hurt a lot when only his brother made the effort to come to our wedding. So I feel your pain.
Obviously, you should follow your heart. No one can tell you what will make you happy.
(btw, you will probably have the most gorgeous kids, if Mariah Carey is any example) ;)
I wish you all the happines and love in the world2