My guy seems to think getting engaged after moving in is better, because it will help you fimd out if you want to marry that person. I think that being engaged before moving in would be better so that a woman isn't taking on the role of being a wife before she is even asked, and wasting her time. I know everyone has their feelings, I just like to get opinions or even personal experiences on this
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well for your own situation, why do you have to take on the role of wife? what is the difference between a wife and a girlfriend aside from some legal document? what is the different between girlfriend and fiancé aside from a piece of metal on a finger?
to me it's up to the couple on their own to decide. for me I wanted to live with a partner before getting engaged or married to see how we cohabitate. I know some people do it, but I can't imagine marrying someone without knowing what it's like to live with them first2