One of my friend found out his wife was having an affair which although I'm single it scares me for the future. So I googled bout affairs (mostly as men being the victim being bias towards myself I'm sure it goes both ways if not guys cheat more statiscticly).
i wonder are modern relationship/marriage doomed to infidelity or is it that people like to talk/post stories about negative relationships instead of how great and loyal their marriage is?
- Happy and loyal relationships are under reportedVote A
- Marriage/relationships have a high failure rateVote B
- Eventually we all find some one we would never hurtVote C
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I have plenty more examples in my own life of healthy and successful relationships than unhealthy ones. I think it comes down to the people getting into the relationship, how they view relationships, and how committed they are to one another. Two emotionally unstable people getting into a relationship is a recipe for disaster. Two people getting married who really aren't ready for that kind of commitment is a recipe for failure. Two people getting together who have different ideas about what makes a relationship good is a recipe for failure. However, when two emotionally stable, mature adults enter into a relationship that is entirely of choice rather than convenience or necessity, and they choose their partner each and every day, and they have similar values and complementary personalities, THAT is when you see a successful relationship and, ultimately, a successful marriage.2