i was engaged to the love of my life ( of 5years lived together for 4 of the years)..about two months before our wedding day she was killed in a car accident. it took me about 3 months before I could even touch anything that she had left out ( like her sweater that she had left on the couch)..well little by little I have really came along way...everyone is pushing me to start dating again and start moving on.including her family...they all say "she would want you to be happy"...but I still feel as though I would be cheating on her or being in the wrong...i know its been a year..but I still love her...will that ever go away...do you think a year is long enough? should I start dating again to keep moving on?
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It is too soon if you are not done coping. You should not be doing it just because everyone is pushing you to. It is never too soon, however, to start living again. Do things that are fun where you can meet new people, male and female. I don't think you should feel you are cheating on her. Would she want you to be happy and feel love even without her? I doubt that she would want you to be lonely. Do not put a time limit on yourself but when you do feel ready, do not feel guilty about it. When you meet the right person, she will be happy for you and you will know it.0