We have been dating for 8 months. We are both 20. She is the one for me. She is perfect. I want to propose to her. We love each other a lot. We are past our honeymoon phase. she is even switching her college to be closer to me. We plan on moving in together in summer. I want to marry her. But how can I ask her that if she feels the same without actually proposing? How should I ask? I want to have an idea before I actually do it! Are there any hints I can drop? I don't actually plan on proposing until after our anniversary in May or maybe I will in February on Valentine's Day!. Should I tell her how I feel? Tell her that I want to marry her and have family with her and grow old with her? Or should I ask how she feels about marriage? When does she plan to get married? Thank you
Most Helpful Girl
wow! First of all, I am so happy for you. It is really rare to feel like that in our age (I AM 21). But, it is possible that she might have the same feelings for you as she does things that are big for your relationship (such as switching college). Allow me to say, wait and do not rush. You have plenty of time afterwards, discuss it with her and see her reactions. Do not forget one thing. YOUR INSTINCT. Trust it. If she the one she is the one then2
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, wait 4 more months, please. Don't rush into it. My parents have been married a great 25 years, and they were dating for like 5/6 years before they got married.
There has been lots of research done about how waiting a few years before getting married leads to the couple staying together.
I've seen movies where they discuss marriage before the guy suddenly proposes, so I'd assume it's like that in real life. Just like any other big decision. I have no idea how you'd bring it up without making it sound like the proposal though.3