My husband is upset because his son passed away. It wasn't really his kid it was a boy he had taken care of for the past 2 years since his parents died. Me and him adopted him after we got married. I only known him for a few months. He was a really nice boy he just turned 15. I told him we could try and have another kid but he doesn't want to. I think he's scared. We tried to do it last night he said he couldn't do it. Even though he only known the boy for 2 years he felt like he's known him his whole life he did feel like he was his own son. He's really upset he also really misses him. How can I comfort him?
Most Helpful Girl
Have a kid... Just don't to prevent it, just let it happen.0
Most Helpful Guy
First off... don't ever say "It wasn't really his kid" again.
Secondly... you can't "replace" a lost child by having another one. Life doesn't work that way.
Ask him. Say I know you're hurting and I love you. I want to help you any way that I can. How can I help you?
Give him space and let him come to you.1