I ben with my fiancie for 2.5 years. We got engaged jan of 2015. We had a few fallin outs. We have made our way through them. She wants to get married but. It seems she wants me to plan it all and take care of everything. We both dont want a big one since we both been married and divorced. I was head over heels in love with her. But now it more I love and care bout her. But I dont want to get married. I dont want to go through the BS I went through b4. Are falling out we had pushed me away mentally. Not to the point i want out. But do not want to get married. Rather just be together without the paper work and BS! Any thoughts?
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Its very common to feel this way. I know that a part of me never wants to get married because of all the hassle that some people are capable of putting someone through. I would wait; awhile. I mean, I was with my ex for 10 years and thought I wanted to marry him up until around year five and then after that I really questioned everything. Don't get married just because she wants to. Make sure you are ready.1