Would you want a polygamous marriage?

Polygamous marriage could mean 1 man and multiple women, 1 woman and multiple men, or multiple women, or multiple men, or multiple women AND multiple men. I was thinking I'd want a polygamous marriage - me, 1 man, and 1 woman - so we could all share responsibilities. Also I'd love them, and have a good sex life between the 3 of us. Would you want a polygamous marriage?
  • no marriage
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  • monogamous marriage only
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  • I'd rather not be polygamous but I'd consider it
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  • I'd prefer to be polygamous
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Why would you want, or not want, polygamy?

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  • I'm polyamorous, so I could thrive in a polygamous marriage. Under a system of gender equality, there is no good reason to deny that we must keep evolving until an adult, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, monogamy or polyamory, race, or religion is free to share love, sex, residence, and marriage (and any of those without the others) with any and all consenting adults. Polyamory, polygamy, open relationships are not for everyone, but they are for some. The limited same-gender freedom to marry is a great and historic step, but is NOT full marriage equality, because equality "just for some" is not equality. Let's stand up for EVERY ADULT'S right to marry the person (s) they love.

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  • I don't have any desire to get married. Most marriages I have seen ended up unhappy, divorced, or with someone cheating on the other. The commitment you make to marry someone doesn't seem to click with modern marriages. And, once you're in one, you are TRAPPED. If things got bad and you needed to get money out of a shared account or quickly leave them, you couldn't do it successfully. With a relationship, you just pack your shit and leave, but marriages are more complicated to deal with.

    I don't want to get married, because men can't keep their eyes on one girl. I'd hate to have to spend the rest of my life with someone that can't be loyal. If I were simply dating someone, I'd be able to leave anytime I wanted. Caught him cheating? No worries. When he comes home, my things will be gone. Turned abusive? It's okay. Just call a friend, pack my stuff, and get out of there. Marriages are so, so much worse, because you can't easily escape from them!

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What Guys Said 30

  • Marriage just won't work for me either way. I never want any offspring to begin with as that's typically the point of marriage to begin with, to establish and start and raise a family together.

    And also, it is because I figured that multiple simultaneous marriages would also meant potentially multiple simultaneous divorces. So therefore, no thanks, even if a law was passed in the future to permit this kind of thing, I'll just have to pass.

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  • No. I just want one person.
    I support polygamy, let people do what they want, but it's not for me.

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  • It would be good only for 1-2 years... Then imagine how many arguments are in monogamous relationship, and double it... Also they would be able to unite against me :D polygamous relationship could be good if they dont know each other

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  • There's a high chance that I'm not going to get married with one girl, let alone two. As for two guys and one girl, that's awkward.

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  • Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same. -- Oscar Wilde

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  • No, I never want to get married. I wish to stay single till death. However I really doubt whether " polygamous" marriage really exists.

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  • B is the nearest option to me - One on one relationship is complicated enough for me and I would hope it stays faithful.

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  • I wouldn't want a polygamous marriage. It's hard enough to have 1 wife so I wouldn't want more than that and there's no way in hell I'll ever share my wife with another man

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  • That sounds kind of hot me and two women living togeather and fucking and looking out for one another. Wanna start a reality TV show?

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  • There's something I don't understand
    Why is it personal perfrence, until Muslims do it, it become backward

    Isn't that doubling the standards?

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  • It all depends on the persons involved. With some I'd be happy, with others I wouldn't even think about it.

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  • the sex aspect sounds great in theory.. but you are also massively increasing the nag factor lol

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  • Considering all risks, specially when it comes to legal risks I'd go for no marriage at all. I{ve learned any man involved in a marriage is on a very unnatural state, and it will only lead to problems. But out of these options, I'd go for monogamous marriage. Polygamy only means taking even a higher risk.

    If I wanted to have parallel relationships I'd just have that, parallel relationships, or simply multiple sex partners rather than being involved in a polygamous marriage. It really doesn't make any sense at all.

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  • to be honest i think i would. as long as im the only guy, and due to how girls lack sexual interest, and as a guy im sex crazed, i wouldn't be sexually deprived or neglected, with more girls around who want me
    but under only one condition, id have to have an easy non stressful non strenuous job like i have now and a better paycheck to support them, and keep up with them, unless they get jobs, and most important NO KIDS EVER. id have to get a vasectomy. and the girls would have to be all attractive, and be my type of course. and streight not bi-sexual or lesbian
    but thinking about this makes me wonder how it would work, but id have to go with one perfect dream girl in my life. that would be better.

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  • Nope and the sex life that's not how it works they say. So you'd be into for the wrong reason.

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  • Poly? No way. I would rather marry or just do my own thing.

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  • with the status quo of the law it is a super stupid thing to do.

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  • Never thought about it. I would consider it, depending on the people. Maybe two guys and two women?

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  • Nope, not for me... strictly monogamous.

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  • Polygamy is not cost - effective :/

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  • No way. I don't want to share. If that was my only option, I'd just stay single.

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  • No. I get that some couples, where they're just dating, are open and I'm fien with that if that's what some are into. I simply don't see the point of getting married in the first place and making such a 'relationship' official by law if the individuals involved aren't all that into the whole symbolic nature of being 'the one' for each other till the end, y'know?

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  • that is not a marriage. marriage is a clear definition. TWO people as partners who vow to remain together till death do them part. call ANYTHING else whatever you want, but it's not marriage, hence i will definitely not be aiming for that life.

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  • Absolutely not, I prefer monogamy. He's mine and I'm his, and that's it. Lol

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  • I always thought of myself as strictly monogamous but lately I'm thinking poly wouldn't be so awful. I mean, there's more people involved and therefore more love and companionship. I can see why people are drawn to that life style

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  • I don't understand the point? But hey, if that's what other people want and no one is being forced or pressured into it / everyone is a willing and happy participant, go fuckin nuts, I don't care!

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  • I don't want to get married. But if I wanted to, I would want to have a monogamous marriage.
    I think it's not okay to have multiple wives or husbands. Plus, I don't like to share.

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  • Not something I would ever do. I want just one person that loves me and is committed to only me.

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  • I'm bisexual so for me a FMF marriage would be ideal. I'd be all for it!

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  • Hell no to the no.. its or I'm the only wife or he better choose between me and the other woman. XD

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  • Nah, I grew up where everyone was monogamous. To have a polygamous marriage would feel weird.

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  • No way. To me the definition of marriage is between one man and one woman.

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  • I would say polyandrous marriage.
    If It was possible I would be in heaven lol

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  • Recently we all watched a TV news about polygamous. A guy got married with a girls with father's consultation. Mom was infuriated so she managed another marriage very next day with a girl of her selection. Two days, two brides, one groom. I continued thinking, and certainly others too, what could be the arrangement of having sex. A few days later we girls were discussing same issue. On disclosed her cousin's polygamy. One guy, two girls. All three sleep together on one big bed, have sex together and are very happy.

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  • As a polyandrist (one woman, multiple men), I would love to be able to marry my future partners.

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  • No, i would want a monogamous relationship but if i did go polygamy it would be me and 2 guys.

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  • I would never consider a polygamous relationship

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  • Nope, I love monogamy.

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  • No thats how things spread...

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  • I don't like sharing so no.

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