Well guys tomorrow is my wedding day, and am just looking for any last minute advice (sensible if possible please!) which you might be able to offer me.
Naturally I shall be "missing" from here for a few weeks, so will you all try and behave yourselves, take care and stay safe.
Thank You All Very Much Indeed For Your Lovely Kind Wishes, Advice And Congratulations. xxx <3 xxx
Most Helpful Guy
Simple advice Kayline: enjoy every minute of the historical day :D
Just exercise saying "yes"... no mistakes tomorrow please :D
Oh and decide if you'll like to be called "Misses XXX" where XXX is your guys' name.
Really happy to hear this great news :D0
Most Helpful Girl
First -- and most importantly -- ENJOY the day. Don't stress, don't let any little blips become annoyances... and enjoy YOUR day. (Plural "your", of course -- the two of you!)
Going forward... Remember, "I do" should never become something you just said on this one day. You should say those wedding vows to each other over and over again -- and MEAN them, more and more each time.
When you have good times together... swear yr commitment to each other all over again.
When you have HARD times together... again, swear yr commitment to each other all over again.
Make this a habit -- whenever there's trouble, yr FIRST reaction should be to RENEW yr commitment to each other... and then you can face the problems together. As long as you're both in this together, you should find that yr problems are relatively easy to overcome, and that you'll ultimately come out stronger in the end.
Even at totally random times... "I do", all over again. Don't just save it for anniversaries.
Write handwritten letters to each other on occasion, expressing gratitude to each other for enriching yr lives. Point out the things you love and appreciate -- those feelings can all too often get drowned out by the busy pace of everyday life otherwise.
Today is... the first day of the rest of yr lives.