For you, what makes a girl "wifeable"? Or makes a guy "husband material"?

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so I was listening to my favorite song rn (which is called "Wifeable" by Masego and Xavier Omär) and I started thinking what is or makes someone a candidate for marriage (at least for my own self)... well I didn't quite figure it out but I'm very curious about what y'all have to say about your own feelings on the subject! 🤔👀👂🏼

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thatguywithakeyboard

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Let's be honest a woman who is clean, tidy, upfront, honest with herself and her feelings and can cook is a great example of what we "man" look into a potential wife. Before someone jumps the gun and screams "misogyny" let me say this. Even truth I can't cook I would be there in the kitchen cooking with my wife, because as a husband & wife we are supposed to support each other.

The ultimate question rolls down what do women see as "husband material". Is it an over hyped muscle buff or maybe snotty rich kid?

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Tarnygosh

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When it comes to husbands, it's less physical and more about their character. I don't care much for muscles as he won't get time to go to the gym when we are sicker or poorer. I want a man who will love and stay loyal. Who will put the kids first before me, who has patience, is considerate and finds fun in the small things. The rest is small print really.

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desertflwr

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@thatguywithakeyboard the only jumping the gun is you babe. I'm not attacking anyone for their standards. we all have different ideas of what we want from a significant other. I think the only time it becomes a probably is when someone wants more from a partner than they are willing or able to offer yknow?

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thatguywithakeyboard

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@Tarnygosh interesting view. But I believe kids and wife is essentially family and they are #1 priority either way. You can also be poor but rather happy, having money doesn't always bring forward happiness.

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thatguywithakeyboard

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Jumping the gun is a rather old remark. Gotta ignore my odd way of writing 🙂

But I can see how expectations have to be mutual, instead of one partner chasing unicorns.

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Tarnygosh

When it comes to husbands, it's less physical and more about their character. I don't care much for muscles as he won't get time to go to the gym when we are sicker or poorer. I want a man who will love and stay loyal. Who will put the kids first before me, who has patience, is considerate and finds fun in the small things. The rest is small print really.

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desertflwr

@thatguywithakeyboard the only jumping the gun is you babe. I'm not attacking anyone for their standards. we all have different ideas of what we want from a significant other. I think the only time it becomes a probably is when someone wants more from a partner than they are willing or able to offer yknow?

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thatguywithakeyboard

@Tarnygosh interesting view. But I believe kids and wife is essentially family and they are #1 priority either way. You can also be poor but rather happy, having money doesn't always bring forward happiness.

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thatguywithakeyboard

Jumping the gun is a rather old remark. Gotta ignore my odd way of writing 🙂

But I can see how expectations have to be mutual, instead of one partner chasing unicorns.

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Traxton

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she has to be gorgeous, smart, kind, things like that. I want to be able to look at her and fall in love over and over. I want to be able to sit down and have an intelligent conversation and fall in love with her laugh.

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wicket

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he's not gonna mess around with other girls is serious about us can be honest and real with me tell me whats bothering him and dont bottle it up inside he has to have a passion for something as in working to accomplish stuff and not just lazy and sits at home takes care of his body makes me smile when im down taller than me lol and just a sweet guy overall make my heart melt!! lol this is a long list

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mersteriosity

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He has to be so different from everyone else. Somebody with great strength, who is ambitious and capable of achieving that dream. Basically the kind that loves me for a week and drops me like that.

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