What about health care, food, a warm clean place to live, dental care, kids, retirement... you know when you aren't able to work for minimum wage.
Its all well and good to pretend money is completely optional and unnecessary for a fulfilling and rewarding positive lifestyle. If you believe in that fairy tale, I got some property I wanna sell you.
@joedoejam well dear, it seems strange that you want me to take care of you... I mean the very minimum you can do is half of what I can do, right? Or can you not keep up flipping burgers at McDonald's.
@joedoejam you actually didn't answer my question. Which... well.. means you want to participate very minimally in the responsibilities that parents and couples need for a good life. Its in my nature to want a partner that can actually participate and take his share of responsibilities. Its in your nature to defend the very minimal expectations you have of yourself for the people you should care about.
I'm not interested in marriage, let alone marriage with you so the question you asked is irrelevent. there is no "if you were to get married" either - it's not happening. it's in your nature to want someone you can load the task of providing onto, someone you can lock into contractual servitude.
@joedoejam then why are you answering this question? Are you dense? Just say " I'm a lazy ass that only cares for myself and I don't feel a need to give a shit about a relationship with a woman"
@joedoejam why would it bother me... your lazy, doesn't matter if you make money or not... and being good looking has nothing to do with success... but the only way you have money is... you stole it... or mommy and daddy gave it to you
@joedoejam man, you're crazy, you come here and complain about how I talk about expectations from a guy to participate in familial responsibilities, then you talk about how its unreasonable to raise a family on one income... which basically agrees with what I said already... but note that didn't stop you from bitchin like a child, then you talk about how you don't wanna get tied down in a relationship... like why the fuck are you so bitter about it
My mfg plant where I make my fucks is not running, the trucks that I carry my fucks in are completely empty... I have no fucks to give... none... even if I had a ton of fucks, I wouldn't give them to this...
you obviously haven't listened to a word I said. it's not unreasonable for people to raise a family on one income. marriage laws are unreasonable and family court is biased.
I'll give you a C+ for effort on the humor, I don't know why you girls try so hard you really suck at being funny.
actually I found a fuck, you don't strike me as a military guy, so not only are you lazy, you're also a liar... you're more the, ima steal a pack of cigarillos from the local convenience store kind of guy
@joedoejam ohh geez, even when I tell you that you got it wrong you still can't figure it out... like I'm legit starting to feel bad for you... if youd like me to explain, ill spell it out for you, but id like you to try to figure it out on your own... expand your horizons my young Padawan, reach for the stars and see if you can figure out a logic chain consisting of explicit and implicit language mixtures that an 8 year could handle... wait, are you underage?
I would not marry anyone, but would I date someone who makes minimum wage? I would, but he has to have either a 50-hour work week or two jobs. California is expensive.
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Men are expected to have a higher income than women. SO yeah they would for someone who is earning above the minimum wage. If their love was pure she wouldn't give a shit about his income if hers was decent and she won't tease him with it.
that would explain why i don't have a female friend. i don't know how people deal with the average women i wouldn't be friends with them so i can see why most women stay single. 💁
of course. hey Im sceptical too. i can't sit up here and say he won't ever screw me over but as of today its good. My loyalty remains regardless of how im treated or what he does.
I totally agree with the women. It's nothing to do about being shallow. How can a family be raised if the guy is working a low income job. Everyone knows kids are expensive
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I'm at a university where the starting salary for my major is six digits, so no, I would not marry someone who makes minimum wage
lol if you are making 6 figures why would your husband have to make anything. because you don't want to work you just want to trap a high earning wage slave
I think most women will be with a guy making minimum wage if he's young and has plans to move up but if he's older and doesn't want to it's not as good of a chance
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If the guy has motivation, a plan, and has shown steps towards getting to his goals. Yes. If he is satisfied where he is, has no ambition, fake ambition, unrealistic ambition, then No.
@joedoejam I don't want a bum. That makes me a gold digger? I'm not looking for wealth. I am looking for a leader that has enough skill to take care of our family. I am a hard worker. We both work hard in my idea.
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if he's cute, good, kind, ideal. money is not a priority since we can monetarily grow together
Nope. Nopety nope nope.. nope.
Money is more important than love to you?
What about health care, food, a warm clean place to live, dental care, kids, retirement... you know when you aren't able to work for minimum wage.
Its all well and good to pretend money is completely optional and unnecessary for a fulfilling and rewarding positive lifestyle. If you believe in that fairy tale, I got some property I wanna sell you.
Understand.
you have to take care of her. she's like a child - irresponsible, demanding and spoilt
@joedoejam well dear, it seems strange that you want me to take care of you... I mean the very minimum you can do is half of what I can do, right? Or can you not keep up flipping burgers at McDonald's.
it's in your nature to want a provider, just like how it is in a leeches nature to want a host
@joedoejam you actually didn't answer my question. Which... well.. means you want to participate very minimally in the responsibilities that parents and couples need for a good life. Its in my nature to want a partner that can actually participate and take his share of responsibilities. Its in your nature to defend the very minimal expectations you have of yourself for the people you should care about.
I'm not interested in marriage, let alone marriage with you so the question you asked is irrelevent. there is no "if you were to get married" either - it's not happening. it's in your nature to want someone you can load the task of providing onto, someone you can lock into contractual servitude.
@joedoejam then why are you answering this question? Are you dense? Just say " I'm a lazy ass that only cares for myself and I don't feel a need to give a shit about a relationship with a woman"
you need me to be a lazy ass don't you? because if I was successfully and good looking it would shit on everything you know.
@joedoejam why would it bother me... your lazy, doesn't matter if you make money or not... and being good looking has nothing to do with success...
but the only way you have money is... you stole it... or mommy and daddy gave it to you
I'm in the military. have been since I was 17.
@joedoejam man, you're crazy, you come here and complain about how I talk about expectations from a guy to participate in familial responsibilities, then you talk about how its unreasonable to raise a family on one income... which basically agrees with what I said already... but note that didn't stop you from bitchin like a child, then you talk about how you don't wanna get tied down in a relationship... like why the fuck are you so bitter about it
My mfg plant where I make my fucks is not running, the trucks that I carry my fucks in are completely empty... I have no fucks to give... none... even if I had a ton of fucks, I wouldn't give them to this...
you obviously haven't listened to a word I said. it's not unreasonable for people to raise a family on one income. marriage laws are unreasonable and family court is biased.
I'll give you a C+ for effort on the humor, I don't know why you girls try so hard you really suck at being funny.
@joedoejam no fucks to give... none... I checked again, I can confirm it... none...
that's why you are here commenting... because no fucks to give. woman logic.
@joedoejam still no fucks...
good you are fucking stupid...
@joedoejam still none...
check again
@joedoejam nope, I had a fuck, but I gave it to someone else
that's right, do as I say you dumb bitch
@joedoejam no fucks to give...
actually I found a fuck, you don't strike me as a military guy, so not only are you lazy, you're also a liar... you're more the, ima steal a pack of cigarillos from the local convenience store kind of guy
the female mind... it's a facinating thing
@joedoejam yeah, maybe you can trade yours in for a male one, it might help with your identity crisis
ahh an "I know you are but what am I?" rebuttle.
clever.
@joedoejam we both agree I'm a female, with I female mind, I never made such a claim about you, can you not figure out the most basic logic chain?
not very clever on your part...
you suggested that I have a female mind and I should trade it in for a male one... it was your own comment dum dum
maybe you were unclear in your use of language, being limited to a stunted and underdeveloped vocabulary as well as a poor understanding of logic.
I don't know, I just think you are stupid. you don't think highly of me either. there is no point in continuing the conversation. good day.
@joedoejam ohh geez, even when I tell you that you got it wrong you still can't figure it out... like I'm legit starting to feel bad for you... if youd like me to explain, ill spell it out for you, but id like you to try to figure it out on your own... expand your horizons my young Padawan, reach for the stars and see if you can figure out a logic chain consisting of explicit and implicit language mixtures that an 8 year could handle...
wait, are you underage?
"if you argue with idiots they will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience" - I concede, you have won.
@joedoejam nf2g
Anyone making minimum wage who is out of school has some real problems.
Worrying reading these comments. How much a person earns shouldn't even come into it. Society got really shallow
Unless he has goals, then no. I don't want him to settle.
If he is looking to move up, yes. Otherwise it just won't be sustainable. How would we feed and clothe future children, pay bills etc
You can still have kids at 100?
@Listening5 womb of steel
Loved how you said that! Wombs of steel xD :D
I figure it's better than someone who isn't earning any money
I wouldn't for a female making minimum wage. Thats too much dependency, instability, and loss of power/balance for a healthy and ideal relationship.
I would not marry anyone, but would I date someone who makes minimum wage? I would, but he has to have either a 50-hour work week or two jobs. California is expensive.
Men are expected to have a higher income than women. SO yeah they would for someone who is earning above the minimum wage. If their love was pure she wouldn't give a shit about his income if hers was decent and she won't tease him with it.
I too call bullshit on a lot of women's comments here.
my boyfriend was jobless when i met him, now he's balling. Karmas real.
Was he in school?
nope.
he is better because he makes more money. she's happy because she hit the lottery.
not at all if he went jobless again I'd be here. my loyalty is above all.
you say this. almost 80% of divorces are initiated by women 🤔🤔🤔
we're not married yet and, don't assume you know my body, mind or soul. ✌
statistics babe 😉
that would explain why i don't have a female friend. i don't know how people deal with the average women i wouldn't be friends with them so i can see why most women stay single. 💁
:) maybe you are one of the exceptions
I mean there are a handful of relationships that do succeed
of course. hey Im sceptical too. i can't sit up here and say he won't ever screw me over but as of today its good. My loyalty remains regardless of how im treated or what he does.
I totally agree with the women. It's nothing to do about being shallow. How can a family be raised if the guy is working a low income job. Everyone knows kids are expensive
I'm at a university where the starting salary for my major is six digits, so no, I would not marry someone who makes minimum wage
lol if you are making 6 figures why would your husband have to make anything. because you don't want to work you just want to trap a high earning wage slave
Woww... I want my husband and me to make roughly the same amount of money and support the family the same
If he is working on his career, yes
Wow, how about 'Men, Would you marry a good woman on minimum wage?'
Of course I would.
I think most women will be with a guy making minimum wage if he's young and has plans to move up but if he's older and doesn't want to it's not as good of a chance
If the guy has motivation, a plan, and has shown steps towards getting to his goals. Yes. If he is satisfied where he is, has no ambition, fake ambition, unrealistic ambition, then No.
ambition - read "I need to invest in a future high earner so I can apporpirate his hard work for myself, quit my job and keep him as a wage slave"
@joedoejam some women do that, sure. So do some guys. What's your point?
almost all women. practically no guys. false equivalency
my point is you are essentially a gold digger
@joedoejam I don't want a bum. That makes me a gold digger? I'm not looking for wealth. I am looking for a leader that has enough skill to take care of our family. I am a hard worker. We both work hard in my idea.
you want a Daddy to take care of you financially
@joedoejam whatever, keep being bitter.
Instead of getting your shit together you spend time whining and being bitter. Real winner. You are not a loser at all.
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my house has a view of the entire mission Bay in San diego. it's worth almost a million dollars
I don't own it... but I tried to buy it. owner said no. I don't want to moooove this view is sweet!
Why is he making minimum wage? Is he content with that?
What about a man that cannot work Eh. .. you are not your job you are not your car you are not a delicate snowflake