Disclaimer: this is not synonymous with a doormat.
For example, I'll challenge him and pretend I stand a chance against him but I love when he manhandles me and I'll surrender.
It it makes me feel safe and sound knowing I have a protector who will father my kids and be there.
I love doing what he requests/ cooking for him/ cleaning for him, etc.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know why it makes you happy xD I'm not saying there's any real reason it shouldn't. I'm happy for you :) It's nice to feel safe and protected. It's nice knowing you have someone you can count on, and who will love you. It feels good to support, love, and help those you care about. I tend to be more on the other side of the coin. I enjoy feeling as though I can protect the people I care about, I like the idea of one day being able to provide for my girl and to make her feel like she never has to worry or want for anything. I want to be able to support her in her aspirations and help her reach whatever goals she may have for herself.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I also like to be submissive, but in this case, with my husband. For me, I think it's mainly stress related.
In my job, I have a lot of responsibilities; one of many is managing other men. I feel that I have to wear this stoic-tough gal masquerade mask while simultaneously exhibiting a feminine grace on a daily basis. It's exhausting and I hate it. My husband knows I do too. So I find solace in being ordered around and told what to do in our home environment by him; whether it be in bed or in the kitchen (seriously lol), it relieves my stress and anxiety.
I probably should get professional psychological help, as my desires may stem from some serious underlying "issues". But I haven't, for I enjoy it too. But yeah, in conclusion, you may enjoy as a stress reliever. ʕ⁎̯͡⁎ʔ༄0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE