So I’ve been having this debate if I should talk to my Girlfriend’s dad or not before I ask her to marry me, we have been together for a few years, and have been living together for a while. They are not a real traditional family, but are close. I wouldn’t ask him because I don’t care what he says I’m asking her no matter what (he is a joker he probably would say no just to be funny), and come on this is the modern days who asks anymore, but should I talk to him? My dad said he wouldn’t care, and didn’t when my sister got engaged.
Just looking for opinions
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I think it be sweet if he did ask my dad.
It just shows that he respects me and my family. Like you said it's the modern days but asking shows you do care about his opinion and that you want to involve his family and connect with the dad.
It's just like the difference b/w a guy who would pull your chair out for you and the guy who wouldn't because it's too 'old-fashioned'0