I had unprotected sex with my brothers wife at a New Years party. They just told everyone that she is pregnant with there first child? What do I do?

She has confirmed she is around 6 weeks.
They have tried for years.
OMG Help!!!
Updates:
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So I messaged her Turns out he set it up He knew about it bastard!
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Turns out she wants come thing called a polygamy relationship and move back to Mexico with both us I'm done
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Omg, why did you do such a cheap move? *Sigh* Well you better come out clean as soon as possible, or else things will take a turn for the worst in the future. Your brother will probably hate you for a while, which you’ll have to give him time to heal, but better tell the truth now! Or else it’d become a huge nasty surprise in the future! by the way you should take a fertility test along with the wife to test if the baby is actually yours.

    • No way!! I can't I won't What will I say I made love to your wife! That's why you couldn't find us to do the countdown!

    • Would you rather leave your brother in tears after he took care of YOUR kid for years whom he thought was his? Have you even thought about the child’s feelings? Would you want to find out that your uncle was the father all along instead of this other “Dad” you’ve come to know? It’s going to be difficult to tell your brother that you screwed his wife, but you’ve gotta tell him now! Or else you’ll await big consequences in the future. Think of telling the truth as a leech, doing it will be difficult as hell, but afterwards you’ll feel all better. Knowing you told the truth instead of hiding away the guilt. I also suggest to write out what to say, approaching the topic is important! Try to give the news to him gently.

    • Why are you asking what to do if you’re simply ignoring the advice people are giving you? What’s the point of posting this question? Are you waiting for someone to cheer for your horrible actions? So you can approve what you did was right to soothe your guilt? Whatever the reason, stop being an ignorant asshole and tell your brother. I hope you see that you’re not just putting your emotions in harm’s way, you’re putting your brother, his wife, their relationship, and their baby’s future in harms way.

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  • It could be his, if he truthy loves her he will love that child as well, its not about who its about how he is a father to a child, i have haz real fathers not give a shit n Treat there own like shit n i have a man that is the best father ever n feels n treats them like his own. Good man That's loves a woman will love that child.

    • If I found out that my son was a product of my wife's infidelity, I wouldn't stop loving him but I would use all the means I could muster to ruin the cheating bitch and the worthless cock involved.

    • @Charleslvajr Bit far it was just a little sex nothing wrong with it if it’s not mine Like you never had improper thoughts towards a married woman or man what ever you are into

    • It wasn't just sex. It was a total violation of trust and fidelity. Something that cannot be forgiven in the light of the circumstances that resulted. Without the child it would simply result in complete separation from all offending parties. I have a wife you degenerate and a son. You defend the lowest of behaviors as "just a little sex" as though you had a right to violate that trust. Go on being a low born animal but do not presume to lecture on "thoughts" when you've committed acts. If you think this has anything to do with religion, put that out of your head, it has to do with decency.

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  • You are a bitch u don't need to have sex with your brother wife

    • Of course I didn’t need to But I was drunk she took advantage of me now I know why Are you doing pec flys

    • Um... No

    • Yeah she had no right to do that to u and etc...

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Most Helpful Guys

  • You need to come clean and hope that your brother is the guy who fathered the child (although it sounds like he isn't). He's going to find out at some point, so you'd better face the music now in the hopes of him forgiving you 20 years down the line.

    • Can’t do it

    • he'll find out sooner or later, probably when his wife tells him after feeling guilty that he is so happy to hold his newborn child. It's absolutely cruel of you to let him do that unaware of what you did. Becoming a father is a great feeling, and you knowingly let him be deceived about that simply because you are too much of a coward to own up to what you did. He may never forgive you if he finds out from someone else.

  • Wow, both you and her deserve to be beaten to within an inch of your life. Hope he finds out and inflicts the appropriate punishment on both of you for such an extreme betrayel.

    • She may enjoy it she made me be forceful

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  • You do the crime, you do the time 😶

    • Own up, or move on like nothing happened. What do you want to do?

    • Some people get away with it!!

    • Yeah. It's tough shit man. Has she attempted to make contact? Does she even remember hooking up?

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  • Wow. Wow! You fucked up big-time.

    Your brother's probably infertile, so in some way you did em a favor.

    You could probably keep the whole thing a secret since your brother and you would have similar genes anyway.

    • Arnold did it with his house keeper! I'm going to bury this deep I think you are right!

    • Wait what? I just saw your update... He wanted you to fuck his wife? Lmaooooo

    • Yeah the bastard!!

  • Help? How?

    And why would anybody feel inclined to help a person who behaves like you claim to have done?

    • I don't need your shame and guilt! None of us are perfect!

  • The first of the weekly Trolls.

    • Thanks great advice Don’t

  • let me get my popcorn

    • Your cruel. You find this entertaining @GinaTina

    • Well this is like the stuff that you find in Mexican soap operas

    • That's a little racist how did you know she's Hispanic?

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  • I would try and not say anything and act as if your happy for them. Otherwise you will wreck a marriage and see you on the Jerry Springer show.. lol

    • I’m with you

    • I agree n as far as looks go Brother n it will look close to never tell, n stay away from her, u r not even sure who baby it is to begin with.. So walk away never look back n keep shut, or but as far as feeling use,,, r u for REAL on that shit.

    • Guess next time keep it in your pants. Haha

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  • Well I hope you and your brother look alike for starters

    That shit will tear your brother apart so keep it a secret and act like it never happened. I mean you did help them out with giving his wife a baby

    • Your right! Bright side I did a good thing!!

  • Tell your brother that your the father of his wife's baby.

    • On his deathbed maybe

    • He's gonna know when the baby doesn't look like him later on.

  • Just run the other comments and I'm reading this guy's way too happy that he impregnated his brother's wife. I'm betting this is a troll.

    • Your right I’m happy he deserves it You can’t judge me

  • It's Jerry springer time!

    • Jerry who?

    • You honestly don't know who that is?

  • Don't do anything. You did plenty already. Anyway it's their problem now. Let's hope the kid takes after their mother.

    • Your right

  • There's nothing shameful in wanting to have a baby.

    • Did you even read the context? Having a baby is fine, but simply having sex with your brother’s wife? What happened to this sacred “Bro Code”?

    • @OctaviaWoods No bro code he has away's though he was better than me

    • @OctaviaWoods She's pregnant. She's having a baby. He can do nothing but wait on being a father of 1 more child.

  • Grow some balls and fess up mate. Now is your time to prove if you're a boy or a man. You need to take responsibility for your actions

    • Alright for you to say! Nice bow tie!

    • You asked for people's opinion... Maybe ask her if she thinks it's yours and go from there... You can't do nothing..

    • I can't talk to her about it! are you crazy!

  • UR A DICK

    • YOUR CAPS LOCK IS ON!

    • SAME FOR YOU

  • To be fair if she slept with you, you may not be the only other person in the picture... but dude still not cool. If you were my brother I would punch you

    • You think she cheated on me Bitch

  • My opinion! Please pretend it never happened and stay far away from d lady

    • Yes!!

    • Don't mind those asking you to tell your brother or something. Some secrets are meant to follow one to d grave. Just cut everything concerning d lady. Stay away d much u can.

  • assuming this isn't a troll you are a dumb fuck lol good luck idiot

    • Idiot? Like you have never done anything wrong Perfect are you never had a improper moment

    • I WOULD NEVER SLEEP WITH A FAMILY MEMBERS WIFE LOL

    • Your caps lock is on!

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  • Wow.. i really dont have any advice for you. Your brother's wife.. seriously? How low can you go.

    • I know, I know I was drunk and we had a connection for years damn it!!

    • Thats not an excuse though.. how is your brother's wife feeling about what happened? Is she going to tell your brother?

    • We haven't spoken about it at all! I almost feel like she used me!

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