I strive to submit to my husband. I want my responsibilities to be him and the kids and the house. He works hard to provide for us. Every or almost every time I choose not go with what he wants I find out I was so wrong in the situation. Don't love to admit that lol. Am I literally the only person left who likes the traditional marriage?
Level of priorities:
Church and community
I used to be so hardcore feminist liberal wah wah wanted to be right all the time until I started being honest with myself. My husband needs to be the leader of this family. My role is to help and support him. I want a humble position. Many of us women would do well to close our mouth and listen a little more. Show respect to him.
Most Helpful Guy
Most modern day women demand that men are something that is impossible to achieve.
They want a guy who is loyal, honest, respectful, empethetic, compromising, emotionally supportive, etc
BUT when they have a good guy they grow cold on him because all of those are weaknesses.
Women are drawn to bad men with the hopes they will not be bad with them.
You say to want to submit but you are doing the opposite. You are putting the weight of demands of personality traits and demands on how you want a guy to be and for that you are willing to stay silent.
THAT is the opposite of submissive therefore if a guy fills all of these requests you want he's someone you will lose respect for.
This is why traditional marriage doesn't work... or any marriage.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd be perfectly happy to marry a good (kind, warm and sensible) man and take the submissive role. I'd rather be the one at home taking care of things. Though I'd hopefully have the chance to have hobbies/part time work too. As I think it's a woman's responsibility to make sure she could look after herself independently again if need be. I don't want kids (well maybe wouldn't rule out adoption) tho so taking care of the place all day might get dull and part time work income would be wise I think. I am a christian but I think it's important to remember that narcissists flock to spiritual hubs such as church halls and as such u have to be careful not to be taken advantage of there. I think its possible to combine old fashioned values with modern thinking. But u must be careful to marry a good person and be smart enough not to put yourself In a position where submissiveness and care giving becomes subservience and total depedence.3