My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage & he said that he would propose by the end of the year...which is inching closer everyday-it's kinda soon...
We have yet to go ring shopping & I know his mom wants him to incorporate his grandma's diamond into the ring, but shouldn't we be looking already? or is it possible he's already planning everything out?
How do I drop the hint that I want to choose one? or at least make a couple of suggestions of what I like? How do I get him to take me ring shopping! I have less than two months! lol
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Some men like my hubby,want to plan it all, being able to surprise ask you, when you least expect it. If you go ring shopping together then you kinda expect it and know what's coming and there is not as much surprise to it. My hubby pick out a ring I never would have thought to be what I wanted , although I gave him hints at what I liked, he chose well, and maybe its not the one I would have chosen for myself but it means more to me because HE picked the ring he wants to see on my Finger for the rest of our lives. He CHOSE the ring just like he CHOSE to spend his life with me.
Make suggestions on what you like, grab a magazine and say oooohhhh I love the way this one looks or I'd really love a marquise style diamond or I prefer white gold to yellow gold...Just grab a sale paper from a store or look online and casually mention it...
Sounds to me like he wants to be the one to choose and wants the whole surprise element. Trust me when he gets down on one knee to propose , there could be a gumball ring in that box and you won't care, you would wear it with pride and show it off to the world because he picked it special just for you!2