- I don’t agree with them
- They’re fine
- Depends on what they plan
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Well, the bottom line is these should only happen with your fiancés approval. If your fiancé is ok with them then have at it. If your fiancé is not ok with it and considers it out of bounds, inappropriate than they shouldn't be done.
I hate strip clubs. I'll be honest I hate strippers. They are scum to me. I'd never have one of these parties and I'd be pissed if my friends tried to impose one on me. If we were at a hotel I'd kick the slu... I mean stripper out when she tried to come in.
I'd not be ok with my girl doing it either. Males strippers are pretty hands on and do a lot of touching in most cases, sitting the woman in a chair, sitting, dancing, grinding on her lap. He'll usually encourage the woman to touch him, put her hands on his stomach or grab his butt, he'll start simulating sex with her, kind of humping her in a sex position while her clothes are on etc.
Sure, you can say that isn't actual intercourse. No, it isn't. Still that would be enough for me to just dump her and call of the wedding. If that's the kind of shit I have to put up with to marry you, that's what getting married entails than I would never even ask her to marry me.
You used the term "trust him". That proceeds from the premise that only sexual intercourse is something that would cause a problem. I'd have a problem with her even seeking out that form of entertainment. That in and of itself would be a deal breaker. Just because it isn't actual sex doesn't mean you get to have sex play and sex games and sexual entertainment with a live person. They are all off the table with me.
Anyway, I'm aware some people are both equally ok with this so as long as both fiancés are ok with it than that would be a go. If one fiancé is not ok with it and find it highly offensive for the other to still do it anyway and go through with it. I'd totally support that marriage being called off.1
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