So I'm asking about someone I know who's a 30 year old man who was dumped by his girlfriend of 3 years when he was ready to propose to her. He bought the ring and everything. She leaves him to "find herself."
What kind of emotional effects would this do to a man? You can break it up in to either part... If you're 30 and single, how would you feel? If you were dumped before proposing, how would you feel?
Would you be scarred for life? Men, what are your opinions? Anyone been in a similar situation?
And what does "finding yourself" mean anyway!?
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Hasn't happened to me yet.
I purchased tickets to a military ball only to have her go with some other guy instead. She stayed with him but he treated her like crap.
I have cooked a romantic dinner for my girlfriend (ex now) only to have her cancel at the last minute to watch movies over a "friend's" house in her pjs. A few days later I catch her riding the same "friend's" jock at a party and I break up with her. She turns around and dates said "friend". I didn't stay in touch but I'm guessing she caught something from this guy. ;)
I took my girlfriend (ex now) on a romantic trip to Florida and a cruise to the Bahamas. She broke up with me as soon as the ship turned around for the U.S.. She ended up going back to her ex, having two kids and moving to New Orleans just in time for Katrina.
Karma is not something you play around with.0