What's wrong with me? I've been with my man for almost three years now. Been engaged for a year and half. Don't plan on getting married for a long time. I find myself not as happy as I use to be with him. I don't get those butterfly feelings anymore, look forward to anything really except maybe sex a few times a week. I wish I felt like I did when we first started going out together. How can I bring that back? I don't know if it's me, us or him. Any suggestions? Please ask me for more info if you care to know more specifics.
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hey...it's just that you guys are now together and spend a lot of time with each other. So there is nothing new in it. And also now you have a kid, so it makes you a little more responsible person. Because you can't live totally free life of a teenage girl. Things did get change when you live with someone, Instead of meeting him for an hour in a day for a date. So guys are probably missing that but I guess everybody has to go through that part. And we have to make adjustments in life. Hey but if it's about having fun then best thing I can tell you is that just don't get always involve with him. I mean do some other things, hang out with friends (ur friends where you can go alone, no cheat ;)). And that's a way you can keep yourself busy and also you can keep your relationship as good as you want. It's just about a little change around yourself, but it doesn't mean that you leave someone you love(I know you wont, just saying). Or spend your time in anything you have passion for. Same advice for him and then you guys will enjoy going out together every time bcoz it'd feel like meeting sometimes.