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I don't know what you're on about in the description but it depends on his life expectancy. Assuming that sexless has good genes, he could still be susceptible to the dangers of the world around him. So it's impossible to get an exact. I'm sorry.
Depends if they love each other or not I suppose 🤷♀️
A sexless marriage can last until one of the partner dies.Actually, this type of marriage is best because you don't have the stress of having to perform and deliver whenever the one partner wants to be intimate.A sexless marriage is a much healthier marriage, both mentally and physically because the risk of cheating on the other partner is practically 0 while the risk to get infected by STD/STI is also down to 0.I wish I could be in a marriage like that if I should ever want to get married. But that is a totally different story.
I can sort of agree with this, but is it then ok for one if them to seek a short term pleasure elsewhere?
Why?Why want to include a short term pleasure? I guess you are referring to physical intercourse. Can you not believe that a marriage can be totally beyond those unimportant pleasures?
I believe a marriage can be but not the physical being
Okay, that is your point of view.I see sex as a useless, problem creating issue in a relation. But this is only my point of view.
And that's what matters,
Depends how different each individual's view on sex is.Jordan Peterson said that the duration of marriages primarily depends on the differences between the couple. If the differences on sex are irreconcilable (i. e.: one needs sex sometimes, the other one wants sex ONLY when the first one doesn't) that won't last.
Generally defined as 10 X per year or less, a SM is simply a defacto divorce. I don't think (a man, at least) can keep affection going without regular sex. Without regular releases of oxytocin, you lose the "glue" holding it together. No sex, no oxytocin.
Welcome to my world... I want to know how long too! But it comes down to the man on how long he can continue with no sex! Especially when there is no love there!
Who is it who doesn't want sex?
Is that in the hope that he moves on?
No it's complicated.. It was a traumatic experience
I'm a good listener if you ever want to talk but appreciate you may not want everybody knowing your business.
It's OK.. I've spoken enough to be honest.. Im exhausted and tired of it and I have too many people msging me.. I've already upsetted a few because I didn't get back to them in reply
Then I will let you be. I can't message yet anyway. I'm still too new lol
Aww you'll get there ☺ I was like that a month ago lol
I quite like the idea of the app, I've had some great conversations
Same here! I had similar questions like yours and met people in same situations
Do you chat on any other social media?
No not at all
I do just to have a private conversation,
Have you been in a realtionship for a long time?
Arabgoddess since you are no longer interested in sex, would you allow your husband to have a sex partner if u knew who they were and the times they met?I asked this question on the app before.
11 years...Yes I'd allow it as long as I had one too,, 😁😁😁 but our culture won't allow it and he's a traditionalist
My parents are still together (at least 20 years sexless I think?). I am sure they're not doing it and have no desire for it.But it's not for me. I am young and I have needs and I am not damaged to that extend. Yet.
by cheating? months imao. shaped by love? an year (if either partner has a valid reason). without the first two? one week tops!
I think cheating would have to be involved
Somebody should file for divorce. A sexless marriage is no marriage at all.About 12 years ago, I was on this Christian internet forum, and a married guy in this situation was asking for advice. He hadn't had sex in like 6 months, and it had been 6 months wait the previous time too, so I told him, in my professional Christian opinion, that technically he was no longer Biblically married, and he should file for divorce. I hope he took my advice.
Forever. I've seen some pretty angry married people go to the very end.
Thats not a marriage. Thats legal cohabitation with a friend with a phony certificate to show. A wife is a mans lover that he actually fucks.
I mean if they both dont care then yeah it could last forever
The answer is yesBut the answer is not always yes
This is one of those topics women are hypocrites on. If she's not getting the sex she wants it's perfectly fine for her to cheat or divorce. However if he's not getting the sex he wants he is somehow a pig that should forget about his sex drive. Fucking hypocrites.
I agree with you. look at all the commericals on the tv. its the mans fault for not wanting or can't have sex for some reason. how is it only the mans fault? a sexless marriage will never last if your young. we need that physical attention.
It can last for as long as the couple make it last..
Depends if the marriage was built on sex. There is more to a relationship than just sex but sex does help bring people together.
That will depend upon the people involved but at some point they will need to recognize it is not a marriage.
long as they want. sex doesn't make a relationship.
until death. I dont expect a married couple that consists of two 60 year old+ people to be sex filled and exciting At that point people dont need sex anymore.
I knew a few 60+ yr old who were very hornyAll they did was talk about sex and who their next lay was gonna beThey exist
@pigoat Thats sad. To each their own, I guess
For me it's 7years now and now I cone divorced my wife, it's not only the seks it's important!!
When you are Young it's really hard but when you're older I guess they get used to it
Or just mad and misrable
I can’t tell you how much longer I’ll be married. Oh, she’ll let me get some once in a great while
Depends on the people in the relationship.
Approximately until it ends
Yeah cuz last me and my wife rarely ever have sex
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