Do you believe that having (let's call them 'significant'?) doubts about/before getting married is perfectly natural/normal, or a warning sign of things to come, not to do it, that should be heeded?
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Perhaps I should have clarified - I am long married and this q was not for me. I went into this relationship with a lot of enthusiasm, and boldness actually, as I just really wanted to be with him, regardless of all the many many obstacles. It was not a sure thing by any means, and everyone has some fears/worries about whether they will be one to surivive and thrive, or one of the other 55% who don't make it forever. I find this q challenging and I don't know the answer so that's why I asked it.