We talk everyday sometime even more. He calls me late at night to tell me he is looking at my picture. We of course have sex, but we spend more time just being intimate (kissing, Hugging, a bit more) He says he really just likes being with me even if it is just working. (We work together a couple of times a month - he tries to make it more often. He claims to have an OK marriage and does not talk about it much. I just wonder can his marriage be good if we are so close physically and emotionally for so long?
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Sounds like something I just finally got out of. except my guy had a girlfriend and for 3 years off and on we had slept together and he would say the same things your guy would say but we did not do a lot of hugging and kissin though but we went out a few times, good chemistry and I was hopin he would eventually leave her for me but he never intended too and I just realized and I did ask him if he was happy with her because then why he kept cheatin and seeing me and he was like yes he is happy and also he never erally would talk about her either. Why aren't they, right? because they are happy with there #1 and we are there sideline good time and regardless of how much yall connect, he is still with her because he connects more with her. Plus they have history. So yes he is hon altho you don't want to believe it like me and you would think somethin is lacking there if they are with us but the truth of the matter is He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Men like this don't plan to leave, they plan to play and still go home to there #1. Why have half of him when you deserve a man that will give you all? Your getting the short end of the stick yet you are hopin if you'll be a little more patient that he will come to his senses and be with you only. NOPE. Your kidding yourself and I was just like you and when I had enough, I was done.0