how should I handle this, she cancelled on two plans, one was for this saturday, maybe she was telling the truth, but to cancel two plans in one day, first we were suppose to be going out today, but she had hangover, and secondly, I was suppose to be stopping at her house this Saturday because of her mum was going away, but now she told me her grandad Doesn't get out of hospital while saturday, so her mum isn't going away... what could I say to her that will make her realize I have options, and don't wana be messed with?
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I would say you try one more plan, and sort of expect for it to go wrong so that it is not a let down. If she cancels that, stop wasting your time. Flakes are no fun for anyone!
It's not a matter of 'not being messed with'. She might just not like you and doesn't want to say it because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
If she does indeed like you, she might try to contact you once you stop talking to her. If this does happen, you will have to tell her you thought she didn't like you because she kept canceling on your plans.0