This is really insightful. I agree with this. I'm not anti-kid, but I don't feel in any way obligated to have them, either.So good thing I'm not Catholic lol (since they don't believe in birth control.)
Couldn't have said it better myself!
Marriage doesn't have to be an overpriced ceremony, people think you have to pay all this money cause they are so use to seeing big lavish, weddings done on tv and such and think they have to do the same.. but they don't. And if you're worried about all those things happening in marriage, why even bother getting into relationship at all? Those thing can still happen even when you're not married and still do. And if it's "just a piece of paper" as much as everyone claims, then why is everyone so scared of a "piece paper"? It's not just a piece of paper, that paper proves you are committed and in it for life and that's what really scares people cause it leaves no door open to runaway. If anything, this is just teaching people to not know how to commit and be scared of commitment, this is part of the reason why relationships aren't as good as they use to be.
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Have you ever listened to a man tell you why he doesn't want to get married? It's very easy to call others immature but as long women think like this, you'll have to search very hard for a husband.
@alwaysintosomething There are good women out there, so not all of them will divorce-rape you and take away your assets. It's very easy to say that marriage is dumb but that's how it worked back then and the system produced great results. I know the reasons why men don't want to get married but it's nihilistic and makes it seem that every woman is evil, also, men need an emotional connection as well. I personally know many people around me getting married so it's just who you surround yourself with.
every woman is given the opportunity by the state to divorce rape. It comes down to how much you trust the woman you're marrying which is really hard. Women change and the same woman who loves you now may turn out to be a psycho. And yes marriage worked in the past but marriage wasn't the same back then. These laws that hurt men are relatively new. Men and women have been living together for thousands of years but these laws were created around 150 years ago. The reality is that marriage is a big gamble but the reward is getting less and less interesting everyday. These modern women don't make good wives for men and it's getting less and less rational for men to take those odds and marry a woman. If 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce, then I'd be crazy to get married. You said men need emotional connection; That's true but I'd rather be sad and free than get married and end up in jail.
You have quite the opinion on how other people should live their life lmao
Me or the OP?
@alwaysintosomething sorry, I meant the OP 👊
I really like this. This is a cool idea.
Your husband can sign for you then
@TonyT1986 haha jokes on you, I'm gay!
I was kidding anyway.
I just voted and looked at the poll results and what I mentioned above is clearly reflected here in the poll results. Marriage is very appealing to women but very unappealing to men, for obvious reasons.
But I would still like to get married.
I don’t have a chance at marriage? Perfect. Cause I said I don’t want it.
Yeah, you're only saying that now, because I told you that you don't have a chance at it.
keep telling yourself that
why are you in denial?
In denial of what exactly
The results of the poll are hilarious. Looks like women are going to have a problem.
That’s sad 😭
You don't really need to get the law involved. Just have a religious ceremony.
Same here so far. Every time I find someone I do trust, they don't trust me, or they don't like me for some reason.
I can assure you I’m not