Why do I not care for my husband after having our first child?

Anonymous
Me & husband have been together since we were teenagers...
he was always so extra with the romance & it was unbelievable how much effort he put into our relationship. I had so much amazement with how well he treats me & it would just take my breathe away.
it felt like my life was a real life romance novel.
he planned the most amazing dates without me knowing so he could surprise me.
he took me on dates & outings every week...
I loved every second of it.
He took great care of my during my pregnancy & did everything for me.
He went beyond my expectations & has always surprised me.
but after giving birth, I get annoyed of him when he tries to make time for us to go on dates.
I get annoyed when he tries to kiss me or get intimate with me,
I feel dead inside & the only thing that I now have love for in my life is our child,
I hate it when he tries to get close to me.
i don’t love him anymore & I’m not interested in being close with him now.
i kind of feel bad about it but I can’t just make myself love him like I use to.
i feel like he cares too much & loves me too much, it turns me off.
Why do I not care for my husband after having our first child?
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