There's a reddit channel called "dead bedroom" devoted to sexless marriages. You might be surprised that many of the reasons are not what you think, and surprised again at how many people both men and women are literally going to the ends of the earth to try to revive their sex lives with their partners. I've seen some claim success, and many give up and file for divorce. I don't go there often because it's depressing, but you should take a look if you are interested, it's eye-opening if nothing else.
My parents have been married for nearly 24 years. I think I would know the reasons why in a lot of times it has to do with the fact that people are having premarital sex before marriage. That's one of the top me reasons why a lot of people are having issues because they have not been taught what it means to really be a friend and ask to learn to love a person. This is why people need to understand what sex is, what a marriage is, what love is, and what they are entitled to do and not do. It has nothing to do about being in a so-called dead bedroom. It has everything to do with the fact that the people that got involved know what a marriage is. Marriage is sexual. Sex is a marriage and marriage is all about having sex. People take sex for granted, or they worship it. People don't know how to love anymore, and they don't know what sex is about. They think sex is just poking something or just having all this ecstasy, things that they see in pornography, and the amount of baggage they put themselves into since they were extremely young. The truth is there's nothing successful about it because again they don't know how to have a marriage.
If people did it God's way, if people submitted themselves into the things of the Lord, they would not have this problem. A lot of people have this problem because they're selfish, didn't have to listen, and eventually marriage takes its toll because it reveals the good and the bad about the other person as well as themselves. People lack wisdom. And their marriages fail because they lack the knowledge to maintain it. That's what the vows are for. People don't know how to uphold their vows. I know the reason why people divorce. I argue with people all the time and it's bad enough I should not even have to argue. People have choices. So if they want to continue to fool around with their life, that's the ending result. Ends up in a bad toxic marriage, or is going to eventually end up in divorce. People decide when they want to wake up.
They don't know what marriage is*
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