It's to bring him to the usa so he can get an education and make his own
oh ok well maybe she can just pay for a plain ticket and help him with his education
He won't be able to live anywhere. He is too poor. She wanted me to pay for everything.
ok but do you have feelings for him... like at all
No i didn't even know him. Never met in person. Never talked to him.
well I hope you have feelings for him at some point after you meet him
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My sister in laws sister and brother did this.
Don't you know that a man have rights on you when your married, it means you cannot marry someone and tell him don't kiss me, don't touch me, don't make sex with me... etcUnless you have a good excuse and it won't work everytime, marriage is sacred, marriage means that god made you and your husband one! And that's why you will hold his family name...If it's a civil marriage which means a marriage only done on the papers, well that's something different! You cannot be married to someone whom you don't want or love!You cannot help someone under the name of marriage and destroy the beauty and meaning of a real marriage!Your mom is leading you into a disaster, if she wants to help him, let her find other ways!