@lampstamp love this - the grass is greener where you water it. wow.and your wife sounds like a real one especially with the heels part. lol
Doesn't answer my question but ok... you get a pass because you are my favorite Desi. 🤪
If you’re unsure about the one you wanna marry, that makes sense. But to be unsure of marriage in general is frightening if your future partner is all in
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u get a great woman and she becomes ur foundation. like foundation that comes with sum requirements. even a skyscraper can't lean over too far without collapsing. but it can withstand earthquakes. u know u have a good one when, in ur darkest times, u want her to be around, and not kick her outta da house
Yeah, but I think no woman will want to marry me if I just want her to have sex with. 😏
Surly you’d want more than just that. Not to mention you’d like to give and lead and be a blessing to your wife right?I think that’s just the litmus test for the gift of being single vs married.
I don't care for that sort of stuff much. I just like sex. Lol
Yeah, that's what worries me. I love being free and do my own thing without having someone bug me or asking me for favors etc but due to my religion I can't sleep around neither to get my sexual needs met. I see marriage just to get sex only.
Historically, marrying to have sex has not worked very well for people. Accordingly a large majority of people do not wait until marriage, at least in Western countries. Most Christian denominations, and most branches of Judaism accept pre-marital sex. Maybe you should pray for guidance. It would be a greater sin to make a failed marriage as many people would be hurt -- you, your wife, and any children you might have.
But marriage ends up being successful for some
@Jack9949 "For some", not most or even a large percentage. Even the people who don't get divorced are often miserable.
So in an ideal world marriage would work but in actuality there are too many issues with society?
@Jack9949 "Society" has made marriage completely unpalatable for men. The laws are so incredibly biased against men that you are surrendering any power you have once you get married. I could write a book about how women change once they get married (no longer acting) or how they manipulate through "accidental" pregnancy, but I am too tired. Marriage offer NOTHING to men, nothing whatsoever.
What if it is the perfect woman?
@Jack9949 "Perfect woman"? WTF is that? There is no more perfect woman than there is perfect man.
True. I just mean in the sense that they are loyal to you always
@Jack9949 Any one who thinks their partner will always be loyal, no matter what, is a damn fool.
My Grandparents have been happily married for decades
@Jack9949 I'm glad to hear that, but you have no idea what has gone on in their marriage. Perhaps they have always been happily married, but that would make them the extreme minority of married couples.
But what if I want to become part of that minority? Isn’t it still possible if I find the right person?
Because I know I will be bugged. Ex. Lets go to Home Depot, let's go out to this place when I don't feel like it. All the talking and emotional support etc. I don't want to be bothered with all that especially when I don't want to be bugged.
Then find someone who respects your time that you can be compatable with. If your with the right woman “baby not now” will always work
"Not now" will be almost always. 🤣