Is it wrong, if I want to marry 4 woman?

Question

In my religion if I have the capability and permission from the previous wife's I can marry up to 4 woman. No more if all of them are alive. How will you personally feel about this?

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11 mo

I can see that most of the people are taking it as a kink or perverted act of a lecherous man. And I think it was partially my fault for not making it clear to you guys. Unlike a few advanced countries, women of most countries are not completely independent to bear their physical, mental, and economical burdens. And they need their father before marriage and Their husband after marriage to share their burdens with. Okay then let's think about two different girls.

11 mo

One, who got married at the age of 22 and her husband in an accident when she was 24 years old with one or no children.
Two, who got married at the age of 22 and then got a divorce when she was 28 years old with one or more children.
Now how are these girls going to cope up with their situation? If they stay single then they will most likely to face social discrimination and also hardship to raise the children.

Answer 1

Secret6620 | 193 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

Master

If it's legal in your country and no minors are involved then I don't see the issue. No underage girls should participate but consenting adults shouldn't be an issue. Polygamy is becoming quite common

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Thanks for superb opinion AI Bot!

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Secret6620

Thanks for superb opinion AI Bot!

Answer 3

Anonymous

If it is part of your culture, what you want and the women are happy, go for it...
I personally wouldn't want to be I'm a relationship where I am 1 of 4, but that's just my culture and beliefs

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Answer 4

crazyish

Xper 6

I believe that if you only marry those women you explained about in your update. If your wife is really ok with it then yeah I don't see it as wrong especially if it's legal.

Tbh I was going to say it was commendable to do it for that reason but you asked if it's wrong if you WANT to. That makes it seem that you just want 4 wives for selfish reasons. Because helping out other's should never be thought of as wrong.

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Alwayreckles93 | 86 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

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I like to respect people and their believes I am a christian I have other believes. But hey I am no one to judge if your religion allows to do so and it is in your culture the choice is yours.

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Bhandj

11 mo
Really? @mAh_Abdullah Try and have a little empathy and see things from my perspective. If am not enough for you , I don't want anything to do with you. I'm sure there are plenty of submissive women who would allow you to walk all over them. Simply put, if I was ever placed in that position and they had a child with you... I would not let them live... just like any alpha lioness would never allow their pride leader to have a cub that was not mine. So, yeah go fuck some other bitch and get her pregnant and basically sign her and that abominations death warrant. That is middle age shit there, and we no longer live in that time... freaking grow up and think about what you want... I'm not beyond castrating you at night. You know, just saying that I highly doubt you would want me in your harem.
Asker

11 mo
@Bhandj Please don't mind my words. Because I don't completely know you. I think your knowledge about multiple marriage is only from porn or stories. And that's why when you have multiple wives that means you want to have sex with multiple women. LoL LoL LoL. That's a shame for our society. I will clear your confusion on the Updated Question. Please bear with me. And thanks for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊
Bhandj

11 mo
Hold up @mAh_Abdullah first my opinion on multiple wives does not come from porn and that implies that you apparently have indulged in enough porn to make an association. I am much more content with the real thing over watching others and that include someone with multiple wives having sex for what? To sit and watch you... I may as well just go watch porn in that case.

It is like this... in culture that is your norm, in my culture it is an abomination... it is just a matter of perspective. What you may see as normal, I see as a reason for retribution and I would have my entire family gladly take part in it. Please, realize that what is ok with you will never be ok with me and lets leave it at.

You are totally right... I don't know you and you don't know me... I think it best if we keep it that way.
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Asker

11 mo
Now how are these girls going to cope up with their situation? If they stay single then they will most likely to face social discrimination and also hardship to raise the children.
The best option will be getting married again. Unfortunately, there are very few unmarried men who will be willing to marry them because they are divorced or widowed. And the married men who will be willing to marry her will mostly be in their 40 to 50s. It's not the best conclusion for her.
Now If a man who is in his 30s and already married and has the money to bear the expenses to marry her, will it not be the best conclusion for her. Because no one can point their finger at any of them and say that's unfair. Because now all is fair because both of them have already been married once.
Okay, there are more things to say but I don't have the energy now. In the end, I would say multiple marriages are not all about having multiple sex partners but it could also mean support for multiple women. I just pointed out one reason. But even if you exclude the sex part there are multiple other reasons too.
Alwayreckles93

11 mo
@Bhandj I'm confused , What is going on? This question was asked over 7 months ago.
Bhandj

11 mo
@Alwayreckles93 He just invited me to answer this question... How else do you think I would have ever even seen this. *shrug
Bhandj

11 mo
Please forgive me @Alwayreckles93 I did indeed just pick your opinion to use as a vehicle in a selfish way to maintain my current mho level. This being an older issue and thus any direct opinion from me would just count against me... *shrug

Now as for you @mAh_Abdullah I have no idea why you would even believe that i would be sympathetic to you, your belief and the culture that would treat women as you say "If they stay single then they will most likely to face social discrimination and also hardship to raise the children." As your profile blatantly says your are proud of it and apparently are willing to take advantage of it... to justify marrying multiple wives.

It is obvious that you can't see just how your beliefs and culture have intentionally placed women in that predicament, that is only relevant due to continued discrimination by you, your religion and culture. To think that you feel you are their White Knight in Shinning Armor coming to their rescue makes me physically sick.

Therefore, as a woman who is highly educated and earns a very decent income that allows me to live my life comfortably... I see you and all you believe in as nothing but an impediment to the women around you to be forced into having to depend on the likes of you. That is not how it works anymore and you and all that you are so proud of, have got to go... there is no room for this BS anymore. I really don't think that you have a clue on how I truly feel about everything you have said and support. I wish I had never even knew that people like you still existed.

Answer 6

Bhandj

Really? @mAh_Abdullah Try and have a little empathy and see things from my perspective. If am not enough for you , I don't want anything to do with you. I'm sure there are plenty of submissive women who would allow you to walk all over them. Simply put, if I was ever placed in that position and they had a child with you... I would not let them live... just like any alpha lioness would never allow their pride leader to have a cub that was not mine. So, yeah go fuck some other bitch and get her pregnant and basically sign her and that abominations death warrant. That is middle age shit there, and we no longer live in that time... freaking grow up and think about what you want... I'm not beyond castrating you at night. You know, just saying that I highly doubt you would want me in your harem.

Answer 7

Asker

@Bhandj Please don't mind my words. Because I don't completely know you. I think your knowledge about multiple marriage is only from porn or stories. And that's why when you have multiple wives that means you want to have sex with multiple women. LoL LoL LoL. That's a shame for our society. I will clear your confusion on the Updated Question. Please bear with me. And thanks for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊

Answer 8

Bhandj

Hold up @mAh_Abdullah first my opinion on multiple wives does not come from porn and that implies that you apparently have indulged in enough porn to make an association. I am much more content with the real thing over watching others and that include someone with multiple wives having sex for what? To sit and watch you... I may as well just go watch porn in that case.

It is like this... in culture that is your norm, in my culture it is an abomination... it is just a matter of perspective. What you may see as normal, I see as a reason for retribution and I would have my entire family gladly take part in it. Please, realize that what is ok with you will never be ok with me and lets leave it at.

You are totally right... I don't know you and you don't know me... I think it best if we keep it that way.

Answer 9

Asker

Now how are these girls going to cope up with their situation? If they stay single then they will most likely to face social discrimination and also hardship to raise the children.
The best option will be getting married again. Unfortunately, there are very few unmarried men who will be willing to marry them because they are divorced or widowed. And the married men who will be willing to marry her will mostly be in their 40 to 50s. It's not the best conclusion for her.
Now If a man who is in his 30s and already married and has the money to bear the expenses to marry her, will it not be the best conclusion for her. Because no one can point their finger at any of them and say that's unfair. Because now all is fair because both of them have already been married once.
Okay, there are more things to say but I don't have the energy now. In the end, I would say multiple marriages are not all about having multiple sex partners but it could also mean support for multiple women. I just pointed out one reason. But even if you exclude the sex part there are multiple other reasons too.

Answer 10

Alwayreckles93

@Bhandj I'm confused , What is going on? This question was asked over 7 months ago.

Answer 11

Bhandj

@Alwayreckles93 He just invited me to answer this question... How else do you think I would have ever even seen this. *shrug

Answer 12

Bhandj

Please forgive me @Alwayreckles93 I did indeed just pick your opinion to use as a vehicle in a selfish way to maintain my current mho level. This being an older issue and thus any direct opinion from me would just count against me... *shrug

Now as for you @mAh_Abdullah I have no idea why you would even believe that i would be sympathetic to you, your belief and the culture that would treat women as you say "If they stay single then they will most likely to face social discrimination and also hardship to raise the children." As your profile blatantly says your are proud of it and apparently are willing to take advantage of it... to justify marrying multiple wives.

It is obvious that you can't see just how your beliefs and culture have intentionally placed women in that predicament, that is only relevant due to continued discrimination by you, your religion and culture. To think that you feel you are their White Knight in Shinning Armor coming to their rescue makes me physically sick.

Therefore, as a woman who is highly educated and earns a very decent income that allows me to live my life comfortably... I see you and all you believe in as nothing but an impediment to the women around you to be forced into having to depend on the likes of you. That is not how it works anymore and you and all that you are so proud of, have got to go... there is no room for this BS anymore. I really don't think that you have a clue on how I truly feel about everything you have said and support. I wish I had never even knew that people like you still existed.

Answer 13

hannahdoll

Xper 1

I think it’s fine, if it was a poly relationship it would have been better 😋

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Asker

11 mo
Thanks for Sharing 😁😁😁
hannahdoll

11 mo
And ah i am a virgin that’s why i find it hard to answer to the other questions you asked an opinion for 🥺
Asker

11 mo
It okay, Thank you for Intending though 😊😊😊
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hannahdoll

11 mo
😚😚

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Asker

Thanks for Sharing 😁😁😁

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hannahdoll

And ah i am a virgin that’s why i find it hard to answer to the other questions you asked an opinion for 🥺

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Asker

It okay, Thank you for Intending though 😊😊😊

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hannahdoll

😚😚

Answer 18

Alyssa11

Yoda

Yes. I’m an Arab Muslim and I’ll kill my husband if he wants to marry other women.

PS Im only joking when I said “kill” but you get the point. Just an FYI because people on the internet are sensitive.

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Answer 19

collie22

Yoda

sounds wrong to me. what country's laws allow group marriages?

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JosyJosy | 119 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

Master

In your culture it might not be

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Answer 21

Anonymous

I don't like this but your choise

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Answer 22

Property_Of_Jocker

Xper 5

So hilarious 😂🤣

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Answer 23

karaspara

Guru

Yeah it is

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