I have been seeking a long term female relationship partner for a long time. not sure if I want to get married with how the current laws work however.
but modern western culture does not promote long term relationships. because majority of modern people want hookups and/or short term relationships more. over time people ruin their sexual and relationship standards doing that.
exactly why western culture needs to remove the legal system. from all types of relationships married or otherwise. with how the current world works both males and females. have their own right to earn their own wealth and resources.
without needing to be given part of their partners due to a bad breakup. from the legal system stepping in and forcing them to divide up their wealth and resources.
some places have common law marriage where if you live together for X amount of time. the local and state government consider you married.
which if you have a bad breakup their is a form of divorce. with which you can try to claim wealth and resources for time spend together. so that is why they need to remove legal system from all types of relationships.
Yeah the law does seem to regulate and restrict marriage a lot... Personally I feel like there needs to be a clearer division between the concept of marriage before the law and as a common practice in society. The law likes to be in control in everything and intertwines it with property rights, family rights etc.
Yes I'm sure we all know what you mean everyone wants love the trouble is it's like that old saying to get a friend you must be a friend so to get a lover you must show that you can love instead of hate that they can't depend on you when they need you basically you have to advertise sell yourself not as a prostitute but as a prize that everyone wants think of love as finding the most beautiful gym that you have ever seen and that you will sell everything that you own in order to buy this beautiful gym that is what love should be if you are willing to give up all that you have for it then you would hold it as being the most precious thing that you possess and you will protect it and nourish it and keep it forever
I think we are many that wants this. I however don't value marriage much if at all. Maybe I'm silly but I don't like the ceremony and if I ever did it I would want something extremely low key. I don't need to get into everything but I would only really marry if the relationship has been stable for many years and even then I don't see the point personally, I don't need marriage to stay committed or loyal and I don't care what others might think or not.
Anyway I went slightly off topic but I do believe most want what you described, it's certainly something I want too.
I understand that and I could get married but it really needs to have gone a long time for me to do that. In my opinion people tend to marry quickly and then it doesn't last very long and there's an expensive divorce on top of the expensive wedding both in terms of time spent and money spent. Maybe I see things very practically and marriage wouldn't make me feel any different and thus I personally don't see the point. It's symbolic but I'm not much for that, I'm not the one who would post my relationship on Facebook even. I just don't see the point as those who I'm close with will know.
Of course, I've learned just how important it is to take your time and make sure you're committing to the right person - that actually, no commitment is much better than the wrong commitment.
Nice to see that though, seems like your focus is in the right place :). We have good intentions at the end of the day.
Dchrls78104 | 275 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.
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Yes, I do. I'd like a wife ( if I could find one!) just like you would like a husband. Of course, however, the first place to look for a spouse is the mirror. What are your beliefs, principles, standards, and values? What turns you on---and off?
Shamalien | 86 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.
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Yeah I know exactly what you mean, like a real companion to be your #1 most trusted ally through this life. Problem is it's a moral wasteland out here, most of us can't be that for someone else and don't deserve it either. Those of us who do... are very lonely, because we are so few and far between and often have walls up because everyone is so dead emotionally and it's startling to encounter that cold selfishness
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KatherineJ | 515 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.
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It sounds like you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself. Find someone you share mutual interests and values with, and see what happens. Looking for a husband might just lead you to frustration.
Yeah, the more you squeeze, the more it slips away. Do not care about relationships and all. Focus on yourself, find a hobby, learn a new skill. Just stay away from television as 80% it's about someone's relationships. And you should avoid thinking about it until some new good memories overwrite the the feelings of the past.
Yes I do know what you mean. I married when I was 21. It lasted 13 years. I wish it would've been life long, but her and I were not intellectually compatible
I think your thought is also romantic it is on way, filled with harmony and beauty. I think it is beautiful to have to your side a person who wants and think so.
Marry me, I mean it, marry me tonight at midnight, I will send you a carriage of fireflies to bring you to me, I am so much love and light, let's try to be happy togheter.
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Be the mother of my children and the happiness of my life, be my spark of light in the darkest night, be my north star, be my tears of happiness let me love you in this life and if you have the soul of harmony and passion that you seem to radiate let's meet in another life too, in another world as well and marry again and love each other again in harmony and peace soaked in passion and love.
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