Just wondering, do you go into a relationship thinking "hey this is a trial marriage/relationship and if it doesn't work at least I learn a lot about it for my next REAL relationship"
Or do you go into a marriage/relationship thinking "hey this is a REAL marriage/relationship and I want it to work and I'm going to get advice/read self help books etc to make it work no matter what because I love that person"
What do you think? Because there's so many "trail" relationship/marriages now a days that I see of.
- Trial Marriages/Relationships are how I do thingsVote A
- REAL Marriages/Relationships are how I do thingsVote B
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In my opinion, a relationship should be the "trial" phase for marriage. Marriage isn't just something to try out. It is a lifelong commitment. Sure, there are going to be difficulties, but that is what the dating portion of the relationship is for, to see how compatible you are with the other person and if you can survive those difficulties with that person.0
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