My wife has been all about money for a while, we have been at each other on and off the whole marriage of about four years. Her friend came up and admitted that she talks very badly of me.
They went to a parts store recently, and the manager walked around with my wife for a while, she can change her own brakes and she only needed windshield wipers that day. Her friend said the guy asked if I was still in the house. My wife's friend said the guy gave my wife his employee discount regularly. And her friend said my wife said yeah he might not be young and nice looking but he has a lot of money. My wife is forty one. Anyone have a clear picture better than mine?
I think something happened. I need men and women's perspectives please.
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Well first off it is very strange that a friend would tell her secrets so to speak to you cause its her friend. It is disrespectful for your wife to be talking badly about you so I don't agree with that. The guy asking if you were still in the house sounds fishy to me. I just don't get why her friend is telling you this stuff but I am glad she is for your sake. I wonder if her friend is trying to get with you cause she seems hell bent to cause problems in your marriage. I would look into that. As far as her cheating, everything else other then him asking if you were at home doesn't sound serious and just harmless flirting on her part to get a discount. If I were you I would go to the store and ask the manager straight up if he is having an affair with your wife. He may not be honest but he won't want any problems at work so if he is then he will stop doing it for sure. If he says no then ask your wife. Just tell her that you feel like she is cheating and don't blow her friends cover cause you may need her help in the future. You have every right to ask her as her husband.0