I met this guy, we went on one date and made out in his car, that went alright, but he rang me two nights later and asked if I wanted to meet him somewhere, I thought he just wanted to hang out, have a kiss and cuddle. He got into my car and we made out but I stopped him when he started taking my top off because I didn't want to go further that soon. So he said "I guess we're not going down there tonight then?" I told him no and he said I was boring and that I didn't have a choice (he didn't act on that threat though, fortunately for me). He tried to pressure me into having sex with him but I didn't let him go further and I knew I did the right thing, I had the right to go only as far as I was comfortable with. I don't have a problem with sex before marriage or anything like that, but I think I'd like to be comfortable with someone and know I'm loved and cared for by him before I go there. Needless to say, I won't be contacting this guy again.
I'm just curious to hear everyone's opinion on that sort of thing, especially guys' opinions. Would you consider his behaviour acceptable and would you expect sex from a girl that soon or consider it weird if she didn't want to do it?
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This guys sounds like a dog. His behaviour is absolutely not acceptable, and I can't understand how attacking a woman's self-esteem ("you're boring) would make a woman feel like giving it up.
And let me tell you something, sweetynxtdoor818, not all men are dogs. You're probably too young to realize that now, but that's also because most of the guys you know are also probably your age and haven't made the right choices in their lives for long enough to realize when they act like total dicks.