i had my tubes tied 2 years ago at 21. I don't have children and during that time my husband and I were engaged to be married. I knew my husband has always wanted kids but I Haven't told him I had my tubes tied. we have been trying to have a baby for 6 months now and he thinks its his fault why I'm not getting pregnant but he has no clue its because I can't have them. how can I come clean?
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This appears to be a troll, but on the off-chance it is real I will comment. You said you had your tubes tied while you were engaged. I find it hard to believe any person would take such drastic action on their reproductive organs knowing that there intended spouse wants kids. Totally stupid to make such a decision without talking about it.
Now you say "we have been trying to have a baby for 6 months now" That is a lie because you are NOT trying. You don't want one and can't (except for the tiniest fraction of a chance of incomplete tieing) have one.
Time to just come out and admit it. The next step in the process of "trying" is fertility testing. How do you react as the doctor says "you can't have kids because you had your tubes tied" in front of your husband. This marriage was built on a BIG deception and it will come out. Good chance the marriage is over.0
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