We are married half year and very happy,
But he works with one girl and
I checked his phone and saw her message : " I know you love your wife and can't agree for my proposition, but if you will change mind or have any problems it's still current" - I don't know what does it mean , but doesn't it sounds fishy? I can't ask him because how I tell him I checked his phone?
She moved to new flat now and she calls my husband to help her with painting , and other things- he is friendly so won't say no
Or when I went for a weekend to visit my friend I know she came our home to give him dinner she cooked ..
I just became to know that I am pregnant ( he doesn't know yet) and I think I shouldn't be stressed now, and because of her I am still nervous,
what should I do ?
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Wow, some women don't know how to leave other ladies husbands alone! It sounds fishy to me. I would definitely come clean to your husband about checking his phone and that you saw the message.
Your husband might be a little upset, but lets be honest here, if any woman saw that on her husbands phone, she would be concerned. I don't know if your husband has crossed any boundaries, this girl could be trying to win him over on her own.
But if I was your husband's wife, I would definitely tell your husband you are uncomfortable being friends with her. Yes he is friendly, but I don't think he understands how obsessed this girl is with him. I know as a woman some of us really do want a husband, and sometimes it's hard when you see other women having what you want so badly. But this girl is crossing the line!
While you were away she cooked him dinner and brought it over? :S I would definitely be concerned about that. I know some people might think that's innocent, but I think she is thinking him coming over to help her and him giving her any attention is just feeding her illusion that your husband has any interest in her.
The message she sent is basically saying "if you are ever unhappy with your wife, I am here". The proposition could be sex, or it could be her saying he can come live with her and be with her in a relationship. Both of those are ridiculous, he is a married man and she needs to back off.
But I definitely think you need to talk to your husband. Don't blame him, but tell him you are concerned because she seems to have this illusion about what is going on between them.