My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me out of the blue 4 weeks ago. 3 days before the break up he was discussing marriage and looking at houses with me. He said he loves me more than anything but he is not ready for marriage. He does not think we are compatible right now but you never know what the future holds. When I asked him why he was talking about marriage he said he thought it was time but something did not feel right.
He is 29 years old and calls himself Peter Pan. We talked for the first time this week and he said he misses me but is happy with his decision and if we are meant for each other it will just happen.
Is he really not ready to get married or does he not want to marry me? Also, what are the chances of us getting back together? I'm just so confused by the whole thing.
Thanks for your help.
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If a man loves you enough, he'll want to seal the deal. Trust me, we men hate unfinished business. He has feelings for you no doubt, but he can't see himself marrying you. He is lacking the ultimate commitment, has insecurity or some other issue. Whatever it is, you're likely to be one of those girls who would have just been dragged along for ten or more years without anything ever happening. The breakup no doubt hurt, but it was for the best in the long run.1