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Going to agree with aMuse.
To be blunt, a woman's hands/fingers are the last thing I look at/notice when I look at a woman and I'm fairly sure that's the same with most guys.
The thing with a fair majority of guys (and I'm sort of generalising here) is that we don't really notice the small things.
In a way you can hardly call an engagement ring small, but its easy to miss, especially when your like admiring her other features!
My guess would be your sort of giving off an aura that draws other guys.