Hi I need help about marriage issue.

i've been dating this guy for 5 years (high school sweethearts) and we got engaged about a year ago. I have been trying to get an actual wedding date from him and he keeps saying he wants to wait about 8 years! I don't know why or what to do I can't wait that long. I need some advice. please help.


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  • What does he say when you ask him why he's waiting so long.

    • Well he told me that he likes the way things are now , but he told his mom that he wanted to make sure he can support me.

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    • Three years is good in my opinion. I would talk to him some more about it. Eight years is way too long.

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  • Eight years is too long! Maybe he has the "final" commitment fear. That is absolutely ridiculous. It doesn't take that long to find a career to support a family. Good luck.

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