Please comment and also do the poll!
- Yes, it is fine to have sex before marriage whatever the circumstancesVote A
- Yes, but only in extremely special relationshipsVote B
- No, nobody should have sex before marriageVote C
Most Helpful Guy
Firstly I'm not Christian (or anything else for that matter). Second, I (and many other men) think that sex IS important (sorry ladies). Some people just will never be compatible on that front, even if they are perfectly compatible on the personality front. Getting married with someone you haven't slept with is like playing the lotto; even if your personalities are compatible, it is completely random if you will get along in bed. I don't get along with my wife anymore (she changed; we did at the beginning) in bed, and I have been borderline suicide for years because of that. I personally think the risk of "not being compatible" is just too great to take the chance. If you take the chance and it doesn't work out, you will be faced with the choice between divorce and being miserable for all your life. If it matters to you, then wait until you got engaged, but before you got married. Like that you still have time to back up, if it doesn't work.4