Do you want to marry a man who is similar to your father, both as a husband AND father to your children? I'm not necessarily talking about looks either.
I mean in terms of how your father was as a parent and husband.
There's no way in the fiery abyss of hell that I would marry a guy like my dad. In some ways, I am thankful to have had him as a dad, as I know it could have been worse. I was able to have a privileged and enjoyable childhood, with my own room, tons of toys and barbies and the vacations that I will never forget. But he was and still is a horrible husband and he's a sh*tty father. Essentially useless.
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My dad is a good man and a great father and husband, but we have the same temperament and mannerisms. I get along with my dad and am still "dad's princess" (only girl out of 5 kids), but we tend to bicker and argue about the stupidest things. We both like to be in charge and we are both bossy people. It's great in some ways because he challenges me to be a better person but in other ways it's just plain annoying to have this power struggle going on.
I am marrying someone who complements me, and likewise I complement him nicely. But he is not like my dad at all.0