I'm going through a long, painful, and ugly divorce (much like my marriage was) and now my soon-to-be ex is claiming that I took his jewelery?! The only thing I can think of is my engagement ring which btw is paid for and has been mine for years. I want to keep it so I can give it to my son one day when he grows up and finds his special girl. So my question is... would you give it back after so many years and after having a child together too? I think he's just evil, spiteful, greedy & self-centered (as always), but am I wrong for not wanting to give it back?
P.S. Our son is still very young and he won't even remember us being a family, all he'll know (by the time he's old enough to remember) is a broken home which is a MAJOR reason for me wanting to keep it too!
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Well for me, I wouldn't want to keep the engagement ring because it would represent broken promises. But if for you it represents your sons future than you have every right to keep it. Plus, I think only the things your acquired after you got married are the things he has claim to... and since the engagement ring came before the marriage I don't think he has any right to it. But I'm not a lawyer so...0