And he's also mad at me for being so upset about that.
What went wrong there? Did he tell them lies or are they just really pushing? Did I give off the wrong impression?
I asked him about it and I guess I didn't phrase it very well, because he said "well what would be so outragous about being married to me?"
Nothing, I just don't that his family assumes we are. I don't want to get married just yet, I want to graduate first. But he's pissed now and I have no idea how to make it up to him. I don't think I'm wrong, he should have at least given me warning there.
don't know what he told his family, but we've no plans of getting married at this point, which makes it a bit early to pick the venue. I felt like I missed a few pages in our book
He took me to meet his family last weekend and well wow, I was overwhelmed in any possible way. They're loaded, the whole thing felt like Gossip Girl Texas version, including the cowboy hats. Quite obviously they high hopes and expectations for him, which I guess isn't generally wrong.
But jesus christ, I don't even know how to put it into words.
Like I was talking to his mom and she was like" So Evan tells me you're politically active, that's sure gonna come in handy when he runs for Senate" What? That's the first time I had ever heard of that. I'm not even sure he ever voted for anything. And yes I am politically active, but for the wrong party.
And when we had lunch at this fancy restaurant right by the lake his sister was like "It's a beautiful place here, it would be a good venue for your wedding"
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I too don't think you've done anything wrong. I assume he's caught in the middle and maybe he got defensive for his family. If they're talking about Senate and he's never expressed those kinds of wishes in the eight months you have been together, its a safe bet to say the family is pushy. Even you said you're under the impression they have high expectations of him, so they may assume that since you've been together for as long as you have, its going to lead to marriage.
Just talk to him about how you honestly feel and let him know you were shocked. That doesn't make it okay for him to be mad at you. He will propose when he's ready and since he hasn't there's really no point in fighting over it.0