I have never had sex before, and I don't plan on it until I get married, but as I'm talking to friends and guys I m starting to get worried that no guy will want to have a relationship with me, because they won't be willing to wait. I consider myself pretty and everything, but there is tons of really pretty girls out there, who can give guys exactly what they want. Do you think this is a real problem, or am I worried over nothing?
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That's admirable, especially in such a sexually "liberated" society. To remain a virgin requires a strong level of self control and descipline. For the most part there is a huge difference between someone being a virgin only because they can't get laid compared to someone saving themselves for marriage. Although I doubt many people would struggle to lose their virginity...
Believe ir or not a lot of guys (hard to put a number on it but I'd say most) even prefer virgins for marriage, even the players, I suppose it would depend on what the guy is looking for from you more. The sex or you on if he would be willing to overlook not being able to have sex. To have sex with someone saving themselves till marriage would mean he'd have to really make a commitment to you which won't be straight forward and will help you pick out the good from the bad. Good luck though! :D1