And then one day he simply announces to you that your marriage is now an "open" marriage. Since you won't have sex with him, he is going to get it from outside the marriage. He tells you you're free to do the same if you wish.
How do you think you'd react? (If you can put yourself in the wife's frame of mind.. she just has a very low libido and has no interest changing her ways or seeking counselling)
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I would get a divorce if I was the husband.
IF the wife is not open to counseling, or seeing a doctor to try to up her libido, or just going through the motions to please her husband.
I have a low libido due to birth control pills. But I still do it as much as he wants because that's just how I believe it should be.
I would not announce that it's on open marriage though. That's something that needs to be discussed.
So yea, I'd just say that it isn't going to work if she isn't going to put in the effort to have a sexual relationship as well. That's part of the love.0