Me and my husband are newlyweds and just had a baby boy. Before we got married he had cheated not physically but emotionally, he would lie but then changed and tried proving me that he will. Then we got married when I was 2 months pregnant, now we had a lot of sex before then when we got married it completely stopped like I had to force him to have sex. I also caught him looking at nude pictures. ( yes I know some people that's OK but how I was raised its not.) He felt super bad and had stopped. Everything that has gone on he has proven me a lot but because of so much that happened I now feel out of love with him. He says I'm beautiful rarely and he just made me feel so unattractive while pregnant. And now that I'm not I just feel disgusted about myself and towards him. I know this is bad but I start to think about how he was with past relationships or girls and with me I just feel like I'm unattractive and just someone he settled with. What do I do?
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I am not sure of the term women go through after pregnancy that brings them down. I just know it is a real thing. So that is contributing to the fact but not entirely.
Women are to be respected and adored especially since you shared in a beautiful gift. I would bring up to him in a calm mature manner of what you are feeling. Make sure he is in for a respectable undistracted calm conversation. It will be up to you to maintain and set the mood for this type of "Family Meeting" There are rules to this. not raising the voices. and no running away . and no interrupting while the other is speaking.
Be prepared he will have some issues with you too.
You must work as a responsible couple. there is someone very special now involved and it is going to take a lot of courage to force this to work . Keep in mind that there ate way too many broken homes and this doesn't have to add to the list.
good luck, I'm guessing you probably won't do this but it will help if you do.2